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Two weeks ago, we started the series on Exodus by
observing Moses call to deliver the people of Israel out
of slavery in Egypt. We read about the burning bush and
about God's self-revelation as the One Who Is - I am
that /who I am. Moses reacts to God's call in perfectly
ordinary human ways. "Why me? What if they won't
believe or follow? I'm not equipped for this. Please,
Lord, send someone else!"
But all in all, it's apparent that Moses' unique story
prepares him to be the agent of delivery. Born a Hebrew
but raised in the household of the Egyptian King, Moses
has access to Pharaoh and familiarity with the ways of
high level leadership.
And he has a unique character for the task. In chapter
2:11-21, we read that he's prone by his very nature to
intervene for the disadvantaged and to risk his own
well-being for the worthy principles or causes. He
rescues a slave who's being abused and actually kills
his abuser. Then, while on the run, he rescues some
women who are being taken advantage of. Somewhere in
Moses' core personality or temperament is the heart of
an idealist - a leader - someone who is called and
equipped to lead people from where they are to a better
place. In essence, every leader's goal is to walk people
out of captivity to anything that has a hold on them,
and into the promised land of better tomorrows.
Leaders aren't the only kind of people, or even the best
kind of people. But leaders have a God-given part to
play.
So what is the stuff of leadership?
Simplest of all, a leader is someone who attracts
followers, for better or worse. But what's the stuff of
good, strong, healthy leadership?
Everyone has a list or a slant.
Leadership Journal and Christianity Today:
- Visionary leader - cast visions, sell the vision,
future-oriented, full of faith.
- Directional leader - sorts options and points in
the right direction at critical intersections.
- Shepherding leader - loves deeply, nurtures
gently, listens, prays, draws people together and
moves them forward.
Bill Yaeger, a mentor of mine:
- Spiritual stance and proven godliness.
- Emotional maturity and balance.
- Gifts and abilities,
"You're looking for a FAT soul. Faithful,
available and teachable."
Howard Hendricks - 7 characteristics of Transformative
Leadership:
- Strong sense of purpose
- Hard worker
- Self-knowledge
- Student for life
- Love their job
- Ability to attract and energize
- Risk-taker
"A person with a magnet in his heart and a
compass in his head"
Ted Engstrom
- Integrity
- A significant personal walk with God
- Goal orientation
- Effective motivator
- Decisive
- Personally disciplined
- Problem solver
- Effective time manager
- Stamina - staying power
- Pursuit of excellence
Peter Drucker
"Management is doing things right, while leadership
is doing the right things."
Alban Institute
- A leader is someone who has followers
- Leadership begins with self-leadership
- Leaders ask "What needs to be done?"
- Leaders are not afraid of strong associates
- Leaders understand that Jesus was right - the
leader is at the bottom of the organization, not the
top
- Leaders create more leaders
- Leaders must also be followers
- Doing real work
- Letting others lead
- Asking questions
- Encourage experimentation and innovation
- Opt for authority and influence, but not power
- Pay attention to their own growth
Insight for Living (Charles Swindoll)
- Biblically anchored - solidly based on the Word of
God
- Culturally relevant - in touch with the times in
which we live
- Christ exalting - upholding honor to the person
and work of Jesus, our Lord
- Appealing presentations - targeting all ages and
stages as we offer material that are encouraging,
interesting and creatively designed
- Realistic - providing instruction that is
practical, down-to-earth, and achievable
- Grace oriented - emphasizing love, acceptance,
compassion, and forgiveness
- Quality over quantity - maintaining our
long-standing commitment to excellence
- Authenticity and accountability - remaining free
of deception in all financial matters…refusing to
use manipulative, guilt-giving, or shame-based
methods
- Personal fidelity - modeling long-term marriages
and wholesome family values
- Firm commitment to the Great Commission -
sustaining a passionate vision for reaching the
whole world
Judson Carlberg, President of Gordon College
- Christian leaders care for their own soles. Often
this is an add-on at the end of any list of
leadership characteristics but I put it number one.
We all have so much to do that often we forget the
restoration and reflection process for our own
souls.
- Christian leaders acknowledge Christ's influence
over the leadership process itself and submit all to
God. Think Christianly about the task of leadership.
Leaders carry out their responsibilities with
humility, submitting all their actions to the review
of a holy God.
- Christian leaders ask the right questions. It all
boils down to "why do I get up in the
morning?" What are my goals? My mission? Often
we live bifurcated lives…we can all learn from the
Old Testament teachings that everything we do is an
act of worship.
- Christian leaders value diversity. They do not
look for carbon copies of themselves. It is so
important for us to recognize that people who are
different from us will strengthen the leadership
team. I purposely sought people who have strengths
that I do not have…my task is to get them all
going in the right direction
- Christian leaders submit to the "mirror"
test. We have to make sure that the person we see in
the mirror in the morning is the kind of person we
want to see all through the day. Good leaders must
be fortified against the greatest temptation and
that is to do the things that are popular though not
necessarily right. The quickest way to erode the
core of our souls is to not have consistency in our
lives…the word of God poured in our lives through
our disciplines.
- Christian leaders look far to the future. Leaders
need to be thinking about themselves and where their
organizations are going at least ten years out. I am
not talking about a detailed ten year plan but where
will the vision, the mission be in ten years? It is
not so much planning as anticipation. If the only
kind of leadership you provide is the reactive kind,
not the anticipatory, not the creative kind, then
your organization is going nowhere.
- Christian leaders recognize the importance of
modeling. People can be moved in a superficial way
by your words but they will be truly moved by
watching your deeds.
- Christian leaders understand that servant hood is
a form of power. Jesus exercised his power through
service…and he often served before he led.
Bill Hybels "Finding Your Leadership
Style."
- VISIONARY. Clear picture of what they want to
happen in the future. Utterly dedicated to the
vision, but may not have other strengths needed to
make it happen.
- DIRECTIONAL. God-given ability to choose the right
path at a critical intersection. Can assess values,
mission, strengths, resources, etc, sort options,
and point in right direction.
- STRATEGIC. Forms a game plan everyone can
understand and participate in, that will eventually
lead to the achievement of the vision. Clearly
articulates sequence of steps to get from here to
there.
- MANAGING. Organize and monitor people, processes,
and resources for mission achievement. There is
usually an abundance of visionary, directional, and
strategic leaders, but a shortage of good managing
leaders. Managing leaders aren't as popular as the
others, but necessary.
- MOTIVATIONAL. Able to fire people up, call out the
best in them, cheer their progress and celebrate
their accomplishments. Sometimes thought of as
light-weight leaders, but very necessary, especially
when people get discouraged, tired, lose focus. The
motivational leader lifts them up.
- SHEPHERDING. So cares about people, nurtures and
supports them, that they would follow anywhere.
People don't want to be considered only as cogs in
the machine as they may under other leaders.
- TEAM-BUILDING. Able to put the right people in the
right slots doing the right things for the right
reasons. Feels that if the above is accomplished,
little managing or nurturing is necessary - let them
go!
- ENTREPRENEURIAL. Eager to get something new going,
but loses energy and enthusiasm when the ship is
firmly underway.
- RE-ENGINEERING. Love to tune up, heal, revitalize
hurting organizations.
- BRIDGE-BUILDING. Ability to get diverse groups
working effectively together. Good at listening,
negotiating, compromising, relating to diverse
people.
Harry Truman
"My definition of a leader is someone who can
persuade people to do what they don't want to do, or do
what they're too lazy to do and like it."
You're probably looking at a leader when you see someone
whose dreams are bigger than their memories.
Moses is a leader. More than his story, more than his
obvious gifting, there is this matter of calling. God
makes it very clear. And Moses finally says yes.
But there are other people in the story - the best work
gets done in collaboration, with other role players
stepping up and contributing. In my opinion, the best
leaders are team builders who know how to match others'
gifts with their own deficits. Moses for better or worse
needed a spokesman.
Aaron is a spokesman - Moses is complaining that he's
not a good public speaker. So God, frustrated with
Moses, says, "Okay, you can take your
brother!" Why Aaron? He has the gift of gab. And
he's a Levite - a member of the priestly people. He's
clergy.
Realize, Aaron has flaws and susceptibilities that will
become all-too-apparent as the story goes on. He clearly
doesn't have the core stuff of leadership that Moses
has. But he's a good communicator. And a pretty good
right hand man.
Almost every commentary I read said the same thing -
Moses could have prayed and believed, and with enough
faith and confidence, he might have found that God
supplies enough communication skill for each moment. But
Aaron, they say, is an allowance from God. Many leaders
receive the call to positions of leadership that require
communication skills at a time when those skills are not
evident or prevalent. Still, God made an allowance for
Moses. Aaron, the communicator.
Why is communication so critical? Part of leadership
involves selling the vision for what could be and then
persuading people to take the risk of moving forward.
Part of leadership involves disseminating privileged
information so that others can be reinforced and
reminded and compelled by the values that drive change,
and up to date on the strategies and new behaviors that
will drive change. So, God put Aaron on the team.
Who else? I want to honor Jethro for a moment and call
him the sender. Jethro is Moses' father-in-law. His part
lasts only a few verses, but I think it's huge. First,
he embraces Moses. Sure, he might have been a bit
desperate to find good husbands for his daughters, and
the crop might have been thin in the wilderness of
Midian, but he sees a good person in Moses, embraces
him, and lets him into the family.
Then, after God's call, he releases Moses to go answer
it. "Go, and I wish you well." (4:18) He even
released his own daughter into a life that must have
seemed uncertain at best and likely perilous. And even
harder, perhaps, he released his grandchildren, probably
knowing that he'd never see them again.
Most of us are only a couple of generations removed from
days when people would leave their parents or homeland
and go to a place of promise, leaving everything
familiar behind. Perhaps, some of you are the
generation. In these jet set days, we don't feel the
cost of our mobility as much, but it's still a huge
sacrifice and a tough job to be the one left behind. I
have enormous respect for families in this church who
have raised their kids to serve God whenever and
wherever, and while I feel for the Sells or the Priests
or others, I know the joy they have in sending their
kids to hard kingdom assignments.
Even for short term missionaries, I admire the spouses
and parents releasing loved ones to go to Louisiana or
Mississippi or Romania or Mexico. Sometimes it's just as
demanding and stressful to be the one left behind. To go
on any hard mission in God's name with the blessing of a
caring sender is to be free and confident.
Of course, Zipporah was probably the hardest one for
Jethro to release. Her presence in the Exodus story
comes and goes, but initially we have to respect that
she stands by her man. She leaves home and family. She
makes a costly gesture in 4:24-26.
Most of us are confused by this text (even ancient
commentators). But the just is this: Is Zipporah going
to go with the program or stand in the way? She proves
her willingness to embrace her husband's faith and
participate in his mission by circumcising her son. As
strange as the story is to us, and as hard as it is to
fathom God's stance in the middle of it, this we know
about Zipporah - she's a team player and a true ezer
kenegdo.
A what? An ezer kenegdo. When God made Eve in Genesis 2,
he made her as an ezer kenegdo for Adam. He was
incomplete. Ezer = help. Kenegdo = corresponding to him,
or equal and adequate to himself. Over the years, the
words helpmeet or helpmate have tried to capture this,
but we have belittled the role with long standing male
dominant notions and the wholesale gender disrespect
that Jim Koch talked about last week.
One scholar calls the ezer kenegdo "the sexual
social and intellectual counterpart to complete Adam's
being." Sort of a scholarly way of saying what Tom
Cavise says, "You complete me."
Most counselors would say that the best spouses are
people who can stand alone healthy, and yet are healthy
enough to risk and be vulnerable to interweave
relationally in mutually interdependent relationship.
And I agree. The healthiest, happiest married people
were usually healthy and happy while single.
Still, there's something about this fit; this
partnership that is huge. The old, time-worn phrase is
that behind every great leader is a great woman. Often,
behind great leaders are great husbands, or brothers, or
sisters, or friends. For Frodo Baggins, it was Sam
Gamgee. Whoever, however, it's just good to have someone
nearby who completes us.
Finally, the cast of leaders starts to grow. Moses and
his nucleus of leaders starts to broaden. The elders of
Israel are brought into the circle. We'll see soon
enough how helpful they can be, and how fickle they can
be. My assumption is that these tribal leaders and clan
leaders (likely the 30 or 40 names mentioned in Exodus
6) are make up of all kinds.
Rogers and Shoemaker write about the nature of response
as innovation spreads from circle influence to circle of
influence
Innovation
Early adopters
Early majority
Late majority
Laggards
No time to break down those terms and their
corresponding behaviors. But as we watch Moses build a
team and try to rally consensus, we'll watch every kind
of reaction and response that's typical when any large
group is asked to embrace the risky steps involved in
change and real movement.
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